'Herbivorous' men changing Japan's consumer society
These men are called ‘‘soshokukei danshi’’ or ‘‘herbivorous men.’’ The phrase is generally applicable to men who are friendly and home-oriented but are not aggressive toward women, love and marriage. Its antonym is ‘‘nikushokukei joshi,’’ or ‘‘carnivorous women,’’ who are in pursuit of an active lifestyle.
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Blurring the boundaries
...Likewise, they tend to have little interest in reproducing, often even being too physically tired to have sex, let alone start a family, according to Ushikubo. The young men's tendency not to have real sex — apparently counterbalanced by their growing reliance on Internet porn sites and "do-it-yourself" gadgets — is a big headache for the nation's condom makers, whose shipments have been falling since 1999, the very year that marks the beginning of the Internet revolution.
Meanwhile, a few other phenomena are underscoring the trend for some men to defy their sexual stereotypes. A 2007 survey by a major toilet-seat maker found that half of Japanese men sit on the toilet to urinate, while bras designed for men have been selling briskly since they hit the market last November.
* apparently, there are women out there who prefer this soft, gentle kind of man. Perhaps he is easy to overpower? swindle money from? perhaps he cooks and cleans? A popular representative of the ‘‘soshokukei danshi’’ sub-species, is this man (Tsuyoshi Kusanagai - a member of Japan's most popular boy band SMAP)...